One of the most useful skills I’ve acquired is knowing when I’m not thinking straight. Let me paint the scene:You're in bed, absolutely shattered from your day. Naturally, your brain decides it's the perfect time to think about everything you've ever done wrong, the awkward response you gave to the cashier, the problems you have to fix, the life choices you could have made... (Side note: if your brain decides to do it at this moment, it's because it's the only idle time it has to do it.
A way to prevent that could be to dedicate some time during the day to let your mind wander. Taking a walk without your phone, sitting in meditation... You'll have less to process once you're in bed.)
Anyway, you get caught up in these thoughts. Tossing and turning, looking at the clock and wondering how you're going to function tomorrow with less than 5 hours of sleep. Next time this happens to you, I'd like you to try this:Tell yourself: “Reader, it’s late, you’re exhausted, you know you’re not thinking straight. Stop thinking about this, go to sleep.” (You need to use your name, it's important.) When we're tired, we're more emotional. Our thinking brain doesn't work as well. I like to say that monsters always look scarier in the dark. The problems seem bigger, more inextricable. In the morning, feeling rested, you'll be more confident of your ability to manage them. So next time this happens, call yourself out. Take a big breath in, and a slow breath out. If the problems are real, they will still be there in the morning, when your brain is fresh. Om, peace 🧡 Clem |
I'm a bilingual yoga teacher who helps people who sit a lot gain mobility, move without pain and reduce their stress.
If you follow me on Instagram, you might have seen the little rant I had after one of my clients came back from their physiotherapist. Long story short, my client talked to their physio about their pain, and the physio was very dramatic and alarming about it. My client came out of this session panicked, wondering if they could even get better. Disclaimer: I would never question a medical professional's diagnosis, that's not what this is about. My issue is with the way this physio talked to my...
We all know that sitting for hours is bad for our health. Not only physical (increasing our risk of getting a heart disease, cancer, diabetes, high blood pressure, persistant pain, etc.) but mental. We're simply not made to sit so much. So why do we suck at moving more? My theory is this: We were told in our 20s that sitting is bad, but “an increased risk of heart disease” scares absolutely no one in their 20s. It’s too far away, too vague. We were also told we should start planning our...
I have welcome a few new members in Yoga with Clem which is always a super exciting time! New routines are getting built and we want to make sure they stick. I thought I would go over some key points to keep in mind when we start a new routine. This is important stuff for my new members but also for anyone who wants to start a healthier routine. Make it Simple Start small and simple. It's tempting to go all in right away, but real change takes time. Begin with one or two new habits to prove...